What I Did on my Summer Vacation
Inside: “What I Did on my Summer Vacation”– it’s the age-old back-to-school writing assignment with a grownup perspective.
What I Did on my Summer Vacation
Remember that perennial favorite writing assignment taken up by returning school children everywhere? This year, I’ve decided to pen my own, partly to take inventory, partly to have a better answer than “nothing much,” when asked the question. So here goes.
I have no fancy travels to speak off—no exotic destinations with sandy beaches or mountain lake vistas. I never left Missouri. In fact, I can’t recall the last time I dipped my toe in a neighboring state. But I kept busy enough.
I tended my garden of crops (for the plate) and flowers (for the soul). I planted zinnias, begonias, marigolds, vinca, impatiens, and other stemmed beauties. I plunked tomatoes, peppers, and herbs into the ground for fresh eating. I tried nurturing seeds, but not much came of this. Not this year. I picked peaches from the tree before bugs or varmints got them. I put up a large jar of curry pickles, refrigerator style.
I did some weeding, too. Lots and lots of weeding, both literally and figuratively.
I tried new recipes.
I convinced Mike to barbecue a handful of times.
I ate watermelon, plenty of it.
I buttered some cobs of corn—and thoroughly enjoyed them.
I read books.
I napped when I felt like it.
I petted my cat when either he or I needed it.
I puttered around the house.
I watched a lot of television. Probably too much.
I rested–really rested–and mostly didn’t feel guilty about it.
I had some good conversations—and avoided some unpleasant ones.
I prayed. Often.
I got my Fitbit steps in, and some extra, too.
I had long talks with Mom out in her van, parked outside my home, as ice cream melted in the grocery sacks on our way back from shopping.
I listened to the birds’ morning choir practice and took in the symphony of crickets and katydids as twilight approached.
I witnessed a few sunrises on my way to let out the cat.
I smelled the most glorious scents: freshly turned earth from the fields, the air after a gentle rain, elder flowers and peach blossoms. Newly mown hay. Corn tasseling.
I walked barefoot outside. A lot. Especially after the rubber sole pulled away from my sandal, making an incessant slap, slap, slap with every other step I took. (I need to fix that.)
I entertained thoughts, both good and bad, if I’m being honest.
I slacked off.
I ironed my husband’s shirts. Three times. I hate ironing!
I watched fireflies at night from the window.
I heard a few stories, told a few of my own.
I sprinkled kind words—and bit my tongue a time or two to keep from speaking.
I laughed—though not nearly enough.
I shed tears—a goodly amount, but not to the point of feeling blue.
In short, I lived.
Favorite Plants in my Garden, 2021
Inside: Dear Reader, let me take you on a tour of favorite plants in my garden, 2021 style. Join me in my garden, won’t you?
There are garden years I remember distinctly, and other past gardens that fade from memory. While this year was not a banner year, to be sure, I find much beauty in my pots and beds. Come along with me for a tour of favorite plants in my garden, 2021.
Something Old
Mom always says begonias look their best in August, and I couldn’t agree more. They are a staple in both her garden and mine. I can’t imagine a summer without them! Obviously I like the red ones the best.
Something New
I have a confession to make: I pilfered a cutting from Mom’s garden when I took care of her flowers while she was on vacation. I had never seen a coleus like this before and knew she wouldn’t mind. I love the gold and red leaves, don’t you agree? It’s really taken off in my old compost bucket.
Something Borrowed
I used to spot dusty miller in flats of various plants Mom had waiting on the back patio to be planted in her garden, and I never saw the point. It always looked odd to me, and it wasn’t until she gave me some extra that I decided to plant it. (I hate wasting plants.) Well, it didn’t take long before it “grew” on me. (I couldn’t help myself.) Oddly, dusty miller reminds me of Christmas. The leaves make me think of antlers, and the white color, snow. And mine nearly lasted that long outside! Here I have it paired with pink impatiens. And like that first time I put plant into soil, she gave me some this year, too.
Something Blue
I love the pretty color of this purple salvia. And I love how it comes back every year from seed. No fuss, no muss, just beautiful tiny bluish-purple delicate flowers for most of the growing season. Each year I eagerly search the flower bed for signs of purple salvia pushing its way through the soil. The daisies in front of it get most of the attention, but when those quickly come and go, my little purple salvia keeps right on blooming along. Lovely!
From a Friend
Moss roses have been a favorite of mine over the years, but these particular flowers have special meaning to me. They’re offspring from originals that came from my friend Joy when she moved to Georgia. Though the long plastic planter that housed them finally crumbled this year, I transferred the soil into a few containers so I’d still have them. The beauty of moss roses is that they reseed themselves every year, which is nearly as good as a perennial!
Trailing
Every year, without fail, you’ll find some kind of ornamental sweet potato vine in my garden. This year I’ve actually planted both ornamental and regular edible sweet potato vines. I have fallen in love with this deep purple color. These heart-shaped leaves can actually appear bronze, and when wet, they really shine–literally. Very pretty!
A Little Bit of Whimsy
Wire grass is one of those plants that just makes me smile–its out-of-control blades reaching for the sky in all directions. At times I run my hands through it like unkempt hair or gather the grass together to give it a new ‘do. It’s fun–really fun–to watch it grow in my container garden around the steps.
Colorful Leaves
How could I forget my regular coleus, planted in the old Weber barbecue pit? Every year I station my large black kettle pot in my line of sight out the kitchen window. The colors are so lovely and uplifting, particularly once it gets going in early summer. By August and September, while still attractive, my coleus becomes very thirsty, and I have to make it a point to water it almost daily, depending on wind and heat. But all that extra work is still worth it to me!
Reliable Beauty
If you’ve been around this website for a while, you know that I love zinnias. This year I actually planted them in a pot, positioned near a window. What I hadn’t planned on is how tall they’d grow, and that I’d be able to see them out the window from where I sit in the living room. The flowers, one by one, bloomed to form a sort of flower candelabra. And the neatest part? Almost daily I’ve had hummingbirds stop by for lunch!
End of Tour
This concludes my tour. Thank you for stopping by my garden and watch your step as you exit.
Come back again soon!
(Next stop: Stump Garden 2021.)
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Peaceful Easy Season, Waiting on Green, and Other News Fresh From the Farm
Inside: Peaceful easy season of summer, waiting on green fields, and all the “little foxes.” Check out all the latest fresh from the farm.
Peaceful, Easy Season of Summer
Seemed like I entered this year with an unsettled feeling, but as winter dwindled away and I finished the last of my editing projects, I was led down an entirely different path. In the early part of March, my birth month, the Lord spoke to my heart and told me to take the month off. No commitments–aside from dinner and dishes, groceries and laundry. My agenda was rest and reading. And, of course, television watching, which helps me relax. So I thought April would be busy.
It wasn’t.
The only thing that changed the rhythm of my life was the addition of listening to my unedited novel being read to me by my word program. I did several chapters per week, which took me to the end of May and a visit from family. (Yay! Meeting my new nephew Asa!) June brought Mike’s first week of staycation and Mom’s out-of-state visit to my brother’s home for a couple of weeks, which added chicken- and cat-feeding duties and flower watering at her house–though the rain did nearly all of that! Still not very busy as we moved into July and Mike received a welcome surprise of five days following the Fourth.
Now we come to the end of July. Still in rest mode. No new projects.
Interestingly, during this time I’ve been drawn to short devotionals on rest. Obviously something I needed. It amazes me how we can know so little about ourselves sometimes. . .
But our Father knows. And He continues to lead me beside still waters, right when I need it most.
Waiting on Green Fields
And what of those green pastures? I’ve been on a watch. Since February. Remember that really two-week cold snap followed by warming trends? That warmth made the world start coming alive with the very first signs of spring, and as I often do during my prayer time, I found myself staring out the window, looking out over fields in the distance. I’d been talking to the Lord about waiting for a situation to change, and He directed my gaze to the fields in the distance. I noticed that the ground looked sort of gray with barely–and I mean barely–a tinge of green. You’d have to push to see it–or be an optimist. I heard His voice in my head.
When will this field be the most green?
August, I thought. The bean field would be at its deepest green in August.
Watch and wait.
And wait I did. Through very light gray-green, to light sage, to sage, then weeds of little yellow and white flowers as well as purple, to brown when the field was worked, to light green, medium green, and, finally, a deep and satisfying green. Meanwhile days and weeks passed, calendar pages turned. Seasons came and went. Some of the things I’ve prayed for have happened, yet I wait, still.
Sometimes what we pray and hope for takes many seasons. Years.
But change does happens. Tiny, barely perceivable bits of change, until, at some point, it overtakes us.
Or, rather, we overcome.
All the Little Foxes
Perhaps you’ve heard the term “little foxes.” The little difficulties, things that go wrong, harsh words, frustrating moments, draining situations (and people). Unmet expectations, delays, disappointments. It’s not always the big ordeals in life that can chip away at our soul. These little foxes can accumulate. Steal joy. Distract. Cause stress. Bring gloom. Avoiding these can be exhausting, particularly when they seem to be coming from all directions. Kind of reminds me of all these Olympic hurdle jumpers I’ve been watching lately on tv.
So how to deal with these little foxes? Be aware of them. Give yourself grace and rest. See the humor–if you can. Last week when Mike was on a bike ride, the catalytic converter was stolen from our car. (I won’t tell you how much that one cost to replace!) While we were able to fix the car the next day, it took a few more days to get in the right frame of mind–including prayers for God to help whoever stole the part.
This morning I met Mike out by the car after another bike ride.
“Still got our catalytic converter?” I said, smiling, joking.
“Yes,” he answered.
“All right,” I said and gave him two thumbs up and a grin.
Thankfully, there are also such things as little miracles. The ability to see humor in this situation was one of them!
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A Simple Guacamole Recipe
Inside: What’s nutritious and filling, quick and easy to make, and has only four ingredients to prepare? My simple guacamole recipe! Check it out.
My Simple Guacamole Recipe
Admittedly I took up eating avocados later in life. Somewhere around my mid-forties I tried the superfood fruit, and I haven’t looked back. So many great things packed into this little green ovoid. (That’s a three-dimensional oval shaped thing, don’t you know.) Try vitamins C, E, K, and B-6 as well as niacin, folate, riboflavin, and pantothenic acid. And don’t leave out the minerals potassium and magnesium. Add to that list omega-3 fatty acids, beta-carotene, and lutein. All that goodness translates to heart health, weight loss, and better digestion. Avocados are also good for your skin and help balance hormones naturally.
On to more practical reasons, this recipe is easy to make, doesn’t require a lot of ingredients, and is a perfect addition to backyard barbecues or other summer celebrations. I’m thinking red and blue tortilla chips served alongside the guacamole for a simple side served on your Fourth of July picnic table. For best results, make it up fresh right before serving it.
So let’s get to the recipe.
- 2 ripe avocados
- 2 tablespoons of fresh finely minced onion
- 3 tablespoons of sour cream
- 2 - 4 tablespoons of fresh lemon juice (can use lime if you prefer)
- salt and pepper to taste
- In a bowl, mash the avocados, leaving them a little chunky.
- Add the other ingredients and mix well.
- Salt and pepper to taste.
- Enjoy!
Give this healthy, delicious recipe a try at your next backyard barbecue!
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